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Chapter 561: Feelings Should Follow Your Heart

Qi Yue raised her head, her eyes revealing confusion and entanglement, and her lips trembled slightly as she said, "If he stays in the army for the rest of his life, I really don't know what to choose."

"I want to be with him, but I am afraid of waiting endlessly like this. The feeling of loneliness and helplessness consumes me again and again."

Shen Sangning raised her eyebrows: "Qi Yue, no matter what choice you make, there is no absolute right or wrong. You just have to ask yourself what kind of life you desire more."

"Every military wife is enduring this endless loneliness and solitude. Do you think their choices are right or wrong?"

“The problem lies in one’s own heart.”

"As for love, apart from principles, there is no absolute right or wrong."

"I don't judge your boyfriend's thoughts, and I don't judge your thoughts either."

"You can think about my question carefully."

Qi Yue was silent for a long time, tears welling up in her eyes: "Master Shen, I know what I long for is companionship, to be able to experience every bit of life with the person I love. But the relationship between me and my boyfriend for so many years is not something I can just let go of."

Shen Sangning nodded: "I understand, love is never easy. But you have to think about your own happiness. If continuing to wait makes you so painful, maybe letting go is also a relief."

"Your personality and what you pursue are destined to be unable to withstand the loneliness and solitude of a military wife."

Qi Yue bit her lip, her voice tinged with tears: "What if I let go and regret it later? It would be great if he could still be together after he retires from the army."

At this time, the wind outside the window blew gently, blowing the curtains. Shen Sangning looked at Qi Yue and said seriously: "No one can predict the future. The key is whether you are happy at the moment."

"If you're constantly obsessed with this relationship and unable to enjoy life, then even if you can get back together in the future, you've lost the good times you have now."

"Besides, I just gave you an analogy, and you're already very confused, aren't you?"

"If you really like him, you wouldn't be so conflicted."

"Besides, if you really liked him, you wouldn't consider that boy you mentioned you had a crush on, right?"

"Your problem is actually very simple. Feelings can be selfish."

"You can't feel happy now, so don't regret or feel pain later."

"Everything you experience in the future is the result of your current choices."

"I can also tell you very clearly that your boyfriend will have a better future than the boy you like."

"At least in terms of material and living conditions, he can meet your needs."

"As for the boy you have some affection for, he will bring you happiness at this stage, but his future will be a bit bumpy. You will also suffer and even worry about your livelihood."

"In this comparison, what choice will you make after considering it?"

Qi Yue was once again deeply entangled, "Master Shen... Master Shen, are you telling the truth?"

Shen Sangning curled her lips, "Of course. So what do you want to choose?"

After a long while, Qi Yue slowly raised his head and said, "Master Shen, I don't want to only look at material things and future development. I know that material things are important, but if there is no emotion, what does it matter even if life is rich?"

Shen Sangning nodded slightly: "You can think like this, which means you are thinking seriously. What's next?"

Qi Yue took a deep breath and said, "I think I should listen to my true feelings. The relationship between my boyfriend and I for so many years is not something that can be wiped out. Although waiting is painful, those beautiful memories of the past cannot be erased."

Shen Sangning listened quietly without interrupting her.

Qi Yue continued, "As for the boy I like, maybe I will be happy for a short time with him, but I am not sure whether this happiness can last long."

"Besides, like you said, if I gave up years of relationship because of a momentary liking, I might really regret it."

Shen Sangning smiled and said, "It seems that you already have some ideas."

Qi Yue nodded: "I want to give my boyfriend another chance, and also give myself another chance. I want to communicate with him honestly and tell him my bottom line and expectations. If he can make some changes and efforts for me, I am willing to continue waiting."

"Then what is your bottom line?" Shen Sangning asked back, "Everyone has their own dreams and life plans. Your boyfriend's dream is to join the army and serve the country."

"Then tell me, have you considered the factors of this problem just now and taken into account the conditions of future material life?"

"Then I'll tell you honestly, your boyfriend is a soldier and his salary is fixed. It may not be able to meet your material needs in the future."

"But the boy you mentioned having a crush on is actually a second-generation rich man whose family makes a living by collecting rent. As long as you stay with him, you will never have to worry about food or clothes for the rest of your life."

Qi Yue frowned, "Were you teasing me just now?"

"So what do you mean? Who will have a better future?"

Shen Sangning smiled, "So, what is your inner standard for measuring feelings?"

"You should ask yourself, instead of coming here to ask me!"

Qi Yue's face turned pale in an instant. She sat there blankly, her lips slightly opening and closing, but she couldn't utter a word.

After a long while, she murmured to herself: "I have never thought of using material things to measure feelings, but reality forces me to face these problems."

Shen Sangning sighed softly: "Qi Yue, life is full of choices and contradictions. The key is that you must know what you value most in your heart."

Qi Yue slowly sat down on the chair, covering her face with her hands, tears falling from her fingers: "I thought that love was enough, but now I find that love is so fragile in the face of reality."

Shen Sangning handed over a tissue: "But if you choose a relationship just for material reasons, when the passion fades, can you really be happy?"

Qi Yue raised her head, her eyes full of confusion and pain: "I don't know, I really don't know. I'm afraid of making the wrong choice and regretting it in the future."

Shen Sangning said firmly: "No one can guarantee your future, but as long as you follow your inner voice, no matter what the result is, at least you will not have any regrets."

Qi Yue was silent for a long time, as if a fierce struggle was going on deep in his heart.

Finally, she took a deep breath and said, "Master Shen, I've figured it out. I can't give up the relationship I've had with my boyfriend for so many years just because of material temptations. The ups and downs we've experienced together, those sincere emotions, are my most precious treasures."

"I will tell him clearly what I think and where I feel wronged."

"If he's still like this, then let's break up! I don't want to dwell on it anymore!"